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Do you feel that your relationship is at risk of ending? In addition, you think they no longer have a future together and you don't know how to revive the flame of love as a couple, don't be distressed!
The good news is that you have not yet lost the most important thing: hope.
Well, now you are on the right track to solve your situation; do not hesitate and read on!
Each couple is a world apart. They are all diverse as are those who integrate them; But, there are guidelines that remain unchanged in relationships, no matter how different they may be.
If you are determined not to give up and learn how to relive the flame of love as a couple, here are tricks that will help you recover what you think is lost in your relationship.
WHY ARE WE A COUPLE? POSITIVE INVENTORY
The first thing you need is to make a count.
The history of your relationship can give you many clues to solve the current problem.
Go back in time and answer these simple questions:
HOW DID YOU MEET?
Recreate the details that surrounded that moment:
Close your eyes and revive those moments as if it were in the present tense.
Do you remember what you felt? Was it all a crush at first sight or did love grow rampant afterwards?
Did you feel nervous to see it or with “butterflies” in your stomach?
HOW WERE THE FIRST EXPERIENCES TOGETHER?
Go back in time: do you remember the first kiss? Was it what you expected?
And the first time you made love? Recreate what you felt in those moments.
Were you very scared? And surely, later experiences were better than those first times.
Perhaps, until you have more than one funny anecdote from those moments when neither of you knew how the other liked kisses or caresses.
WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO MAKE A COUPLE AND BE TOGETHER?
There can be many reasons.
Even the surrounding circumstance may have influenced; that happens, for example, when a baby comes sooner than they expected.
But, the decision to form a couple is always given by mutual feelings of love and affection towards that other with whom you want to share your world.
THE ART OF COMMUNICATION: LET'S TALK FRANKLY
Communication is the most powerful tool of human beings, it makes us have the ability to express, at all times, what we feel or think.
That is in theory, because in practice not everyone knows how to use this tool, because talking is not always communicating.
The healthy communication partner is vital!
In a relationship, it is essential to communicate and, of course, to do it correctly.
If from the beginning of the relationship you do not tell him how you feel, what you think in relation to both, what happens to you at certain times, you are going the wrong way.
DO NOT FORGET THE FOLLOWING:
But, if the problem is already there, if you already let things happen, if you should have already said and did not, then you have to stop and try to understand each other:
LEARNING TO DISCUSS AND DIALOGUE
If you follow the advice above, keep the following in mind.
To be able to communicate and be understood by the other person, you have to learn how to do it.
If you are very possessive, or you always like to have the last word, or above all you want to be right at all times, stop !!, that is not the way to recover the love of your partner.
If you are looking for a culprit all the time, or you see betrayals and bad things, stop again!
Reheat a little and be calm. Breathe, relax and think things well.
Are you really always right? Is he always the culprit?
Is it necessary that you always control everything? At his side are all disappointments?
It seems to me that it shouldn't be that much.
LEARN TO YIELD
If you want to know how to revive the flame of love in your relationship, if you want to recover what seems lost or about to be lost, the first thing you have to learn is to give in and leave space when you talk or discuss with him.
It's not that they don't fight. It's not about not arguing. All relationships have arguments and misunderstandings.
In all there are differences of criteria, whoever tells you otherwise lies blatantly.
The important thing is to learn to discuss and, more than that, to dialogue, to talk, and retaking what I told you before, to communicate, to listen.
Don't put a NO in your mind before he explain something to you.
Do not censor what he says without having finished expressing himself. Listen to him, show him that you know how to do it and show him how.
You will see that with tenderness and patience they can soften the differences. It's worth a try!